Wednesday August 29 2012

I happened to mention that the most important book you wil ever read is Dale Carnegie's 

How to Win Friends and Influence People. 

The book was written in the 1930s but while times change people don't. The book has sold millions of
Screen shot 2012-08-29 at 7.52.05 PM copies and when I amazoned it I was amazed to discover that new editions still fetch $12. My yellowed copy reported it was the 18th printing, an amazing record for a non fiction book. 

Carnegie sums it up this way

You will make more friends in two months by showing an interest in other people than 

you will make in two years trying to get them interested in you. 

No kidding. 

Carnegie himself was amazed at the results. Even during the Depression the book sold thousands of copies, people would flock to his seminars. 

My students have suggested, and I agree, that it would benefit from a re write to have more modern examples in the book. Admimttedly Carnegie of course writes in his own day and age, Clark Gable, not Brad Pitt, was the reigning movie star. And the letters he re prints are dated but still genuine. 

Try it, you wil like it. 

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    Ruben Medrano

    Professor Elam offered and I accepted one of the most precious gifts I have had the pleasure to enjoy; his recommendation to read the Dale Carnegie book, How to Win Friends and Influence People. I can now second his recommendation to read this book.
    I start out every year with a list of books I plan on reading, often times slipping a recommended read into one of the slots. I did this and can tell you that I did not only enjoy the book but was able through imagination thrust myself into the presence of Mr. Carnegie as he shared real-life stories as real-life examples to bring his book to life. I know that some people suggest an updated version with current and up-to-date examples; I did not need them because I have no problem placing myself into the times.
    From the moment I started this book I wanted to quickly propel through it in hopes of becoming a super-character of some kind. After having read books in the past like Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, I knew better than to rush this priceless opportunity. Pick up a copy (I borrowed mine through our library system at Texas A&M-San Antonio), sit back and enjoy a book that will change your life if you truly give it a chance. (My added advice: keep a note pad and pencil handy.)
    I am sorry for my vagueness but after reading this book I feel it an injustice even giving away golden treasure from within. Enjoy, I know I did.
    [The Edition I read (1958) is the original with a few comments and additions provided by his wife, Dorothy, 3 years after his death in 1955.]

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